Sunday, December 25, 2011

happy birthday wayne!!

i just wanted to give a shout out to my fabulous hubby, wayne.
he's 41 today.
yes. today. christmas day.
i love him because he....

loves me
loves the Lord
is sensitive
is patient
is caring
is hardworking
spoils me
has a servant heart
puts others first
is a great fantastic dad
is always helpful
will eat my cooking without complaining
doesn't care that i don't bake
appreciates what i do
loves me even when i'm grumpy & unlovable
gets me coffee on the mornings he's home
helps clean up supper dishes every night
etc
etc
etc
i could go on, but i'll leave it at this.

God knew wayne was the best match for me.
i can only pray that He gives us many more wonderful years together!

love ya babe!
happy birthday!

Friday, December 23, 2011

Merry Christmas everyone!!

i just wanted to share with you all our annual christmas letter....

December 2011



Greetings everyone!

We hope that our annual Christmas letter finds you all well and that you are enjoying the Blessings of this season. We wish you a joyous Christmas with your loved ones, with God’s richest blessings for 2012! This year’s letter seems to be a little longer than usual, so grab a coffee, put your feet up & I’ll fill you in on the happenings of the Otten family!

                We have once again been blessed with a year of prosperity & health in our family. We continue to be busy with work, church & school activities.

Eryn: now 17yrs old, has become quite the young lady on the go.  This past summer she headed to West Virginia with her youth group from our church. They hooked up with a mission based there called ‘mustard seeds & mountains’ where they help repair the homes of local residents.  She saw poverty first hand & was able to witness the love of Christ to those in need. She was also blessed by the people she came in contact with and in the process, made new friends & amazing memories. Currently, Eryn is finishing up her senior year of high school. Just in the past few weeks, she’s been looking at area universities that offer courses in medical radiology or ultrasound technician…somewhere in that field. We’re not 100% sure what she’ll end up taking, but this is what she’s now leaning towards. You noticed that I said area universities; she’s determined to live at home if she heads off to university. I’m good with that J! This summer, both Eryn & Dani worked in a tree nursery…outside every day from 7:30 am~5pm. They did grafting, checking for blight, pruning, budding, gun~tying & labeling trees with a brush stroke of paint. They worked with all varieties of trees, but mainly apple & lindens.  

Danielle: now 16yrs old and driving too!! When did this happen that we have 2 children driving already??!! Dani was ‘all talk’ last year when her sister started driving, but it’s a whole new story now that she’s behind the wheel! She now understands Eryn’s nerves the first few times on the road. She’s getting used to it & doing well.  Dani is well into gr 11 and is finding it much tougher than last year. Since she still loves her sports, but finds it harder to juggle the extra-curricular with the work load this year. Basketball is now done & volley ball is well underway. This past April, Dani had the opportunity to host two Dutch guests from Groningen, the Netherlands for 2 weeks.  Eryn graciously gave up her bedroom for them since it has two single beds in it. Our guests, Nikki & Pualien, go to a Christian school in the Netherlands and as part of their English program they were to visit a Canadian school for 2 weeks. We had a lot of fun with these two & showed them the area sights ~Niagara Falls in particular was a huge hit!  But, when they were not in school with Dani, they were content to spend their free time at the mall…typical teenage girls! Dani also was able to go to Ottawa with her class for a week in May.  Wayne was lucky enough to go as chaperone! They had a lot of fun together. In Feb. Dani & Eryn will start working in the greenhouse again on Saturdays till June

Veronica: now 13yrs old and is taller than Danielle…even though you can’t tell in the picture!! It’s hard to believe that she’s already in gr 8 & graduates in June! We have 2 graduating…one from gr 8 & one from gr 12! She went camping for 2 days & one night this past June for her yearend class trip. It was a lot of fun as I got to go along with her as chaperone. We weren’t in tents, but in small little, primitive cabins, and the resort had a main great room where we all ate. In total there were 47 kids as well as a dozen chaperones. It was a blast….got no sleep. Roni also enjoyed going to the cottage this summer with grandpa & Sylvia.  One of Sylvia’s nieces is there with her family and she has a daughter that gets along with Roni. They head up to Buckhorn which is up towards Peterborough. This year Levi & Jordyn went up too. With grandpa’s boat & Sylvia’s kayak, the kids have a great time!

Levi: now 12yrs old… I know, already! He’s actually enjoying his gr. 7 year!! I’ve always said that he doesn’t like school, but this year he’s doing really well!! He’s picked up the love of reading…fine~a~lee!! ‘The Lord of the Rings’ and ‘The Hobbit’ are the types of books he’s actually interested in. He likes adventure stories with different types of fictional characters & places/worlds. However, being creative is still one of Levi’s strong traits. This fall, he was helping me do some garden clean up and was cutting down some of the really tall(10’+) ornamental grasses with a small saw and took the left over pieces and made things like a bow & arrows and kites.  He would take duct tape & string and anything else he could scrounge up to make his toys. Then he plays with these things for hours…who needs video games when you have nature that you can ‘up~cycle’ into new & exciting things!! He is also still active in sports at school and will try out for the basketball team this year. Even though he’s of small stature, this kid can move on the court & is fairly accurate getting the ball in the net. It will be tough for him to make the team because there are a lot of boys who are much taller than him, and being only in gr 7 he has to compete against the gr 8 boys for a spot on the team.

Jordyn: now 9yrs old & mid-way through gr 4! This girl too, has shot up in height and has almost caught up to her brother.  She’s not tall for her age as she is of average height in her class.  No more short hair for this little girl…she wants long hair. And it has gotten long over the last few years. Jordyn has grown up way too fast. I know I say this every year, but it’s true.  She tries so hard to keep up with the big kids.  She enjoys school and does well. This girl also loves to read and always has her nose in a book. She also loves to play board games and very often games are laid out on the floor in the family room (basement) & the three youngest are deep into playing a game. Jordyn is also forever singing or playing the piano or recorder…she just loves music. Her health issue seems nonexistent at times, but has fainted again a few times this past year. I know it doesn’t sound like a big deal (& I don’t treat it as such) but there is always underlying concern with her heart murmur.

We’ve spent time together as family…it was great to have aunt Jeanette, uncle john & aunt Ann , grandpa & Sylvia, Deb & Bill and kids come for a bbq in September ~good times.

One highlight of the year was that we headed down to Florida the end of October. The kids had 2 PA days in a row on the 27th & 28th, so we took advantage of those days! Deb & Bill generously gave us their timeshare week so our accommodations were covered!!

We took the extra days off for travel time so we could be in Florida from a Friday to a Friday! From the hotel we listened to the timeshare presentation and received amazing deals on Disney & SeaWorld park tickets. We were busy doing a park every day! Because we did 2 Disney parks (Magic kingdom & Animal kingdom) they gave us free passes to ‘Typhoon Lagoon’ water park for a day…wu~hooo! We also went to ‘Medieval Times’ dinner/tournament on our last night there, to celebrate Levi’s birthday…that was a blast! The weather was perfect…hot & sunny every day with highs of 86°. It only rained the Friday morning when we were leaving for home. It had stopped raining by the time we reached the palm coast about an hour north east of Orlando. This is where we stopped at the beach so the kids could swim in the ocean. This was on the kid’s ‘to~do’ list. It was still very warm out, but hazy since it had been raining. We combed the beach for shells & sea glass and we even spotted a family of dolphins swimming by. That was so neat to see! We had just seen the dolphins up close at SeaWorld, but it is so cool seeing them in the wild!!! We had so much fun & made so many great memories together!

Wayne & I have been keeping busy as well. Wayne’s back is much better than it was last year, but he must be careful still. The renovations are moving along… slowly. The office & laundry room have been painted and are ready for the flooring to go down. This week, the new garage walls hope to be put up and the trusses will be delivered. It will be nice when that’s done so we can park our vehicles in a garage again…especially for when the snow flies!! I have picked up a few more clients this year, and now clean 8 houses. Most of these are every other week, so I work only 4 days a week…usually. However, this time of year, they all want me just before Christmas, so I will try to accommodate them & squeeze them in.  It’s only mornings, so it’s usually not a problem. I also still teach the junior youth group at church every wed night. This keeps me busy as well, with planning lessons & fun activities for the kids. Just a few weeks ago, a niece on Wayne’s side got married and we were asked to be the MC’s for the night. What a job that was! We had fun, but the evening ran a little on the long side…oops!

God has certainly blessed us richly once again this year. May we continually give Him the glory for the wonderful gift He has given in the birth of His Son & thus the reason for this Christmas season!!

Sending our love,

Wayne, Brenda, Eryn, Danielle, Veronica, Levi & Jordyn Otten

~p.s. our dog Mika is doing fine too ;)! 



from our family to yours...
wishing you & your loved ones a "Merry Christmas & Blessed New Year"!!

Friday, December 9, 2011

time out....

school is  the extension of the home.
especially when your kid comes home to tell you that they were put in a 'time~out' for misbehaving in class.
now i know i don't have perfect children, by any means!!!
but here's what went down today.

my child came home to tell me  & i quote.."oh, i had the best day today!!"

"great! tell me about it" i say.

"we had so much fun in class....aaron & i had to wash up the dishes that we were using, from what we were making & he splashed me with water so i splashed him back & then he was going to get me wet again so i started running away & mr. h told me no running in class~go put your nose against the wall, so i had to stand in a time out"...trust me. it was told as a run on sentence too!!

"you stood in a time~out'??!!"

"ya, & that was the first time."

"what! you stood in a time~out more than once??!!"

"i know, it was soo funny!"

"that's not funny....what happened that you stood in a time~out again?"

"well, after i mr. h let me out, aaron was making fun of me & making not nice comments, so i hit him just as mr. h looked at me and he told me to put my nose against the wall again"

"well, you know you're supposed to keep your hands to yourself.  i would have put you in a time~out too!!"

"but i had so much fun in class today....it was just too funny!!"

"i'm glad you thought so"

so you maybe thinking to yourself, which one of her kids was a little brat in school?
nope, it's not the youngest...she's usually pretty good at school.
it's got to be the boy...he looks like trouble.
nope.
it's this one....
eryn.
guilty.
always a well behaved student, but she's trying to make her senior year of high school, memorable.

Wednesday, December 7, 2011

remembering....

5 years ago {december 5 2006}~ yesterday{tuesday} was the actual day, that my dear mother went home, to be in glory forever, with her Lord & Saviour.


there are soo many things i loved about her....

~her gentle spirit
~her smile
~her laugh
~her blue eyes
~her soft hands
~her always singing hymns & psalms
~her love for the Lord
~her tender heart for her grandchildren
~her love for me...i'm selfish .i know.
~her godly example to those who knew her
~her always having a kind word
~her great  fantastic cooking
~her perseverance during her trials
~her sense of humor
~her inner strength...received by grace
~her being always a ' gracious lady'
~her beauty

there are many more...

she taught me & i learned by example, however with my character & stubbornness, not all have 'stuck'.
she taught me :
~how to cook
~how to clean {this ones comes in handy!}
~sew {a course in 'home ec' at school helped too ;) }
~her love of plants
~basics of baking {by basics, i mean basics...she wasn't keen on baking & i'm not either!}
                                         







she always took the time to be with the grandkids & gave each one the special attention they needed.

 her handwriting was dear to me at the time of her passing.
it seemed as if i couldn't have enough items in her handwriting...i don't know why.
these were taken out of a book that was made for my nieces...

they read....

what do you want your grandkids to know about you?
"i want you to know that the Lord has been so good to me. whenever i was ill, He was there to help me. i know i will be with Him when this body dies. even though you will be sad at missing me you can be happy i am with the Lord. i look forward to having all of you & grandpa with me & the Lord Jesus, sometime in the future."
 what is your favorite verse or memory from church?
"hard to say. many have meant much to me. one outstanding is Isaiah 49:16a which means that God has 'tattood' me into His hands. He is always watching over me. this is the word which God applied to my heart with so much power more than 20 years ago, which assured me that i was really one of His beloved.  Psalm 46:1"(the text at her funeral)
 what makes you happiest about being a grandmother?
"sitting in church with my children & grandchildren beside me.  knowing that my grandchildren love the Lord. hearing you laugh and have a good time with your cousins playing 'restaurant' downstairs. treating your parents with respect & being polite to everbody."
this is how she lived.
she lived her faith.
she showed her love for God in her treatment of others, humbling self & putting other's needs ahead of her own.


i loved her deeply....
i miss her more deeply....
i do not wish her back....not to this sinful broken world full of hurt & pain.
she is in glory, with her Saviour, in perfect joy, peace & love!
always loving you mom & forever thankful that God gave me to you & you to me!

Monday, December 5, 2011

holiday decorating...

i love this time of year....
the house seems so much cozier with the holiday decorations up!

the sounds of christmas music playing ~handel's messiah <3!.....
the smells of ginger bread cookies baking {ok, that one is imaginary!!}....
candles burning...
the fire blazing in the fake fire place {i'm doing my best people..it's all i've got!}









i just have to put the tree up yet & then we're ready!

Thursday, November 24, 2011

sew.....what?

ya.
sewing.
the week after coming home from florida, was the school bazaar.
every year for the bazaar, i do a bit of sewing.
it's my little contribution...
but, finding time to sew is another thing altogether!
so i dug around in my stash of fabric & this is what i came up with:

the colours aren't true from the pic...i don't know the lighting was off or something

i only had enough fabric to make one blanket....
in the past i make 2~ one 42" square & one smaller.....like these i made for a client of mine as a baby gift.
the smaller one has all the tags on it....so versatile~one can clip toys & soothers to them and babies always find the tags on blankets & play with them.



they are quick & easy to make
and they are oh sooo cozy for the wee one!!

Tuesday, November 22, 2011

florida!!!{part 4}

i know, i know....it's been a long post people.
bear with me, it's almost done.
because now we're on our way home.
friday morning we pack up the van.
it's drizzly & overcast~but still really warm this morning, and we promised the kids we'd head back to the beach so they can swim in the ocean.
we're planning on going back to the beach that we found on our way to orlando.
it's just a bit north of daytona...it's the palm coast actually.




 did some beach combing....look what roni found {it was a bit gross but cool at the same time}
as the kids were swimming, just a ways out we saw this family swimming by....
as it was hazy out, it was difficult to focus my camera.
this is the best i could do...


what an amazing way to leave florida, watching the dolphins swim in their natural environment!!
it's one thing to see the dolphins at seaworld in a tank up close...
but to see them in the wild is way tooo cool!!!

leaving florida was sad, but good.
we had an A~MAA~ZING holiday!!
we may need to come back someday....i'm just say'n.

we saw the cotton fields driving through georgia...
ripe & ready for picking....

then.....
when we came to west virginia....
SNOW!!!!
what????
yup, snow!
i know..gasp, right?!?
the snow didn't last long though,
by the time we got to new york, all was green again.

all in all, we had a great time, made great memories and loved every minute of it!!
now.... it's back to reality & routine.

p.s.
a HUGE thanks to my sis & her generous hub who made this trip much more possible for us to do!!

{so thanks for putting up with such a long post just on our holiday happenings}